What the F is up with that second year of marriage?
I have to preface this by saying that I am in no way a marriage expert. Not even close. The only advantage, I guess, that Will and I have as a couple is that we’ve known each other for 16 years, so there are a few things that we’ve learned. And we’re still learning! Every day. The past few months in lockdown have been so great that it made we wonder why we ever disagreed in the past. So I did a little mental digging and asked myself, “Seriously... what the F was up with that second year of marriage? And why is no one speaking about it?” In November, Will and I will be married for 9 years. I always joke with him and subtract a year because that second year… Yor, ku rough! There’s no other way to describe it. Granted we had gone through a year of loss, surgery, trauma and NICU visits that I wholeheartedly hope not many couples have gone through, but upon reflection and chatting to a few friends, there were some similarities that most couples do share. For so long, I felt as i